How I feel

"Taking arts is a waste of time, It's like there's no future for people who take arts."

As a student, yes I am taking arts and having to deal with people saying negative things about what I choose, hurts. 

The mentality of certain people. 

Whether we want to take arts as our major, that is our problem and not YOURS. If you are so confident that whatever you're taking will get you to a better future then go ahead but never tell someone that it seems impossible for them to succeed. NEVER. Whether they take arts, science or business, never tell them negative things as if they won't succeed.

It pisses me off and hurts me when people tell me that taking arts won't really get me anywhere. Let me ask you something then. How would you know if I won't succeed? Will the course your taking now make you succeed in life as well? You don't know your future either so why judge ours? 

A person may be well off taking science but that does not mean they have a brighter future. Arts may not look like much but to people like us, it means a lot and also will get us somewhere in life. You'll never know. 

I'll give you one good example then. She's a person I admire the most and she's my mum. When she was about my age, she took arts as well and she succeeded in life because of it. No, she wasn't an artist but she worked in a very good place, I won't say where but the company is one of the leading companies known worldwide that represents Malaysia. I can honestly tell you that I'm not bullshitting about this sort of thing. She had a good position in her job and a good pay. She was successful.

So it comes to show that it doesn't matter what course you take, you can still succeed if you're willing to learn new things.

No one will ever stay the same

No one will ever be the same person they once were a year ago or even a day ago. People change and people leave or they may not seem as close to you. It's normal. That's what mum taught me. 

We cannot expect the same people to be with us all our lives. It's sad but true but sometimes moving forward is the only way.

Do not tell someone who is lying on their death bed that you've always cared about them, when a day ago all you were doing is ignoring their cries for help.

-Kamilah S. Harris

Cat Picture

MY LOVE FOR CATS ARE INFINITE! lol

Here's Muffiin

CYCLE OF ABUSE

I'm sorry it's crappy but I'm still getting use to using a tablet. 

I hope those of you out there who are going through this, please get out of relationships like this, for your own sake. You may claim to be in love but really, abuse like that will worsen everything. 

I hope it's useful. 

^_^

Art Theft/Not crediting & re-editing my work

As much as I love having my art displayed throughout wide social media's, I'd also like to point out that it does bother me when people do not ask permission when re-uploading my work on other social media's and re-editing my work to make it seem like it's theirs. If you are of legal age to be on social networks, it should give some of you some common decency to ask for my permission to re-upload my artwork but it is strictly unacceptable for you to steal someone else's including my artwork and re-edit it to make it seem like your own and then posting it on your social media to get likes. 

I've had at least three cases involving my art being used for the wrong purposes but those cases were considered okay and I didn't really mind since they didn't re-edit my work but I've recently come across a new one and it somewhat bothers me. No, It bothers me a lot. 

Here's a small(kinda) message to people who steal other artists artwork;

An artist took a substantial period of time to finish a piece of their work only to have it being stolen and re-edited and re-upload by a fake artist.

An artist took all the trouble to make a piece of artwork only to have it being used for other purposes without their permission.

Do you not consider an artists feelings when their art is being stolen? Imagine you worked hard on something only to find out someone had stolen it and used it to get credit from your work?

That would hurt wouldn't it. 

As a proud EXOstan, I love sharing my wallpapers and whatever piece of art I have with everyone but it saddens me when people do not take the time to credit the artists take so much time to make them.

So please, before you think of stealing and using other people's artwork, remember how they would feel and remember that if you are caught for art theft, It can be taken as a serious thing and is indeed against the law to do so.

I am not an admin on any facebook page unless I update this journal that says otherwise.
I  have a lot of social media accounts and all of them do not have a fake name, I use my real name that is either written in as Kamilah or in Korean. 
Any page on any social media using my artwork as theirs but not using my name is NOT me and unless they don't credit me, please tell me about it.
Stealing is a crime and you as a human do not want to be an online thief or a thief in any way.

“Cheating is NOT a mistake.

“Cheating is NOT a mistake.

If you’re truly in love with someone, you will not be able to kiss someone else without tasting your loved ones tears stain your lips. You will not be able to take your clothes off for someone else without feeling like a field ripped bare to its soil. Cheating is a choice, its a choice you made because you obviously didn’t give a single f**k about your relationship.”

—	Unknown (via doemilk) Exactlyyyyyyyy (via sendmepurplekisses)

You don’t have to hear “I Love You” to know that someone does

“

"Good Morning"

“How was your day?”

“Be careful”

“Text me when you get home so I know you’re safe”

“Sweet dreams”

“How are you?”

“I hope you’re feeling better”

“Have a good day today!”

“I miss you”

“Good night”

“Can you come over?”

“Can I come over?”

“Can I see you?”

“Can I call you?”

“You’re beautiful”

“Want something to drink?”

“Watch your step”

“Let’s watch a movie”

“What are you up to?”

“How is your day so far?”

“It will be okay”

“I’m here for you”

“Do you need anything?”

“Are you hungry?”

“I just wanted to hear your voice”

“You just made my day”

…

You don’t have to hear “I Love You” to know that someone does. Listen carefully. People speak from the heart more often than you think.

”

Remember That You are Loved

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Quote of The Week

“Everyone should smile. Life really isn’t that serious. We make it hard. The sun rises. The sun sets. We just tend to complicate the process.”

—	x (via freshurr)

Ask yourself

what does it mean?

It means do you need someone for the sake of not feeling alone and or sad or do you want me because you actually love me, not solely on comfort and fear but you actually want me.

Via Tumblr

Emotional Abuse

Credits to the rightful owner of the image above

by thorin-and-twerkteam.tumblr.com

Emotional abuse is when someone does something to hurt you, and when you express your feelings, that you’re upset, they turn it around to be something you did to hurt them and they force you to apologize for it, and your feelings, like always, are rendered invalid and silenced, forever damaging the ability to trust others with your feelings because they always are used against you.