Fatehah's -My Advice To You: love...

My Advice To You: love...: what do you think of love? It's just a question to people who doesn't appreciate what love is, do you? For my age.... i don...

Cupcakes

So, I made cupcakes yesterday. : D

Thank you!

To those who always view my blog and take advice from it...

I'm SOOOOO Happy :')

Quotes

Credits to the rightful owner of the photos

Don't Find Faults In Others

This goes out to people who forget about the reason why a person acts differently.

You find faults in others but you don't find the faults in yourself.

Ask yourself why people act the way they are and ask yourself how did they become that way. 

Sometimes we think we know about a person when actually we know nothing. They could be living a whole different life when they are at home, alone. 

We simply speak bad of others when we don't realise that we are being bad by speaking bad of them

If you need help.

I really don't care if you are someone I dislike, if you need my help, I will help you.
Conditions are that I will not help you if it is something bad.
I will only help you if you need good advice and comfort.
I will not help you if you want me to bash someone.
I will specifically not help you if you are rude or you are trying to manipulate me.
I will not reply to hate
I will not reply to rude comments

I will reply and help those who genuinely need help. Like a problem. I will help.
I am only here to give my best advice and comfort. If your problem is something more serious than you need professional help. ^^


manipulate: control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously

Happiness

My mother always told me to be happy for the little things in life. She is right in that sense. We SHOULD be happy for the little things in life.
Like oxygen, we need oxygen to be able to breathe, that's something to be happy about.
We have a home, even if there isn't much but we have enough to keep us out of the rain, that's something to be happy about as well.
And there are many more examples.

We get a few problems that sadden us but we are rewarded with hundreds and thousands that we should be happy about. It's a fact that sometimes we are blind and don't take the time to notice the little things to be happy about. We should learn to notice those little things so we won't turn into this horrible generation of greed.

You may not have gotten what you wanted today, but be happy for the things and people you have now. What you have now is something you should make of it and be happy about.
We shouldn't mourn over things we dont have or didnt get rather we should just be happy with what we already have.

Another thought in my mind, you control your own happiness. You should never depend on another person for your happiness because one day, they will let you down.
You control your own happiness and that is how it should be.
You may think that they would never make you sad but when you depend on them for happiness, they have the opportunity to crush it. Again, dont depend on others for happiness.

That is all for now. I have finally got ideas of what to write so I hope everyones will like it and learn from it and probably share it. :)

credits to rightful owner of the photos

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNrlwL8Ce4U&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Sorry Again

I don't really have much to say. My mind has not been able to offer you guyds advice today but I hope everyone is doing alright. Ignore the picture I guess. Umm..Is everyone still here? If you still view my blog, I am veru grateful and just thank you. I'm still feeling quite down, I will not deny but I really don't want to tell anyone the reason. But, everyday must go one and I would have to force a smile on my face. Thank you again to those who still view my blog. When I'm feeling better I will try to give some more advice and help probably a few tips too. I cant promise when but I will try. Goodbye for now.

Ps. Please check out EXO's new song Miracles In December. There is a Korean and Chinese version to the song and its veru touching.

I am sorry for not updating

Sorting myself out for a while. Sorry everyone. I'm really just mentally exhausted and it is showing on me physically. Reason? I am yet to find out. Sorry everyones. When I am better I will update my blog. For now pleasr just enjoy scrolling through old posts and pray that I will be okay soon cos I am just so tired of feeling like I am depressed. Although I cant diagnose it myself but it feels that way. Anyway, bye for now.