New Year's Eve & Happy New Year!

Preparing and waiting for the New Year?

Here's my New Year's Eve message and New Year's.

First and far most, I will introduce myself again just for tonight in memory of the last day of the year 2013.

My name is Kamilah Sofia and I am a 15 year old blogger. I blog about helping people and giving my best advice. I only post advice that I have experienced. I'm a weird person and I'm cool with that.

I would like to say Thank you to everyone of you who have supported this blog and read through it. Whether you agreed with what I wrote or not I'm happy and thankful you took the time to read it.

If I have ever attracted negative attention because of my blog whether I knew it or not, I am sorry and I hope you who are reading this will forgive me.

If I don't come on to wish Happy New Year,

I wish everyone who is reading this a Happy New Year

may the year 2014 be filled with joy and other fun stuff that should happen. ~^_^~

To my family, friends and even distant friends,
I Hope you have a great New Year and may it be filled with joy and everything worth wild.
If I've hurt any of you in any way, I'm sorry and please forgive me.
Forgive me if I have hurt you intentionally or unintentionally.
Also, I want to say thank you for those of you who have been with me through bad times and good times. I really appreciate it from the bottom of my heart and I'll never forget it.

I also want to thank my best friends for putting up with my crap and annoying attitude sometimes.
Thanks guys for being there for me when I needed you and I hope I will be there for you guys whenever you need me.

Happy New Year's Eve and Happy New Year! ^_^
I might not post another new year post for now.
Have a lovely day ahead. <3

To those who have gone through New Year!
HAPPY NEW YEAR! ^_^

EXO 2014 GIF

This is part of EXO's 2014 calender XD

Here's a gif.

Scroll down or january Luhan Gif.

EXO GIF from their 2014 Calender.

You may download and use this gif for personal uses but please do not re-upload on other sites without my permission.

You can just ask for permission provided you do not erase my watermark because I made the gif. Thank you and Enjoy!

Download Link

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A Nuisance To Her

All my life I could forgive you for hurting me with your words but now I feel like there is no more forgiveness to give because you simply assume that I will forgive you when I actually I haven't, because you've hurt me too much. You called me bad things through text messages, you called me a fake, you called me like I'm some kind of dumb kid, you called me "biadap, kurang ajar" and so many more. How do you think I feel when you called me that?

It really cut me up inside and I'm still very hurt and you know what, I can't believe you are my flesh and blood and I can't forgive you for hurting me too much this time. 

You think you know me but genuinely you don't because you never took the time to know me because you were busy with other people in your life, people who didn't matter as much. I know who I am and I know I am not perfect and maybe I do tell lies sometimes but I've never hurt anybody as much as you did. I've never hurt you as much as you've hurt me. You're too caught up in material things and people who don't actually care about you. When the people who care about you, you leave them and you seem as if you don't care about them. Don't ever say you care about us if you never show it. Don't ever say sorry if you never show it or mean it. 

I know who I am to you and that is a piece of crap right. I only bring problems in your life so maybe if you have problems then you should NEVER EVER come to me for help.

IMAGES

IT'S FREAKING TRANSPARENT! XD

YEAY IT'S TRANSPARENT!!! <3

You may download and use this for personal uses only but please credit me because it is my edit and i edited it to be transparent. OKAY? Okay.

Also I do not own the original Image. It originally belongs to SM or EXO or whichever. ^_^

Sorry if its not neat..you are allowed to neaten it if you want. it's a PNG. file just so you know. same with all my transparent ones. 

Holiday's are almost over for me and therefore I must change my blog background. Hehee!

Kindness is Everything

It doesn't matter even of you aren't the prettiest or flawless girl around, as long as you remember to have a kind heart and are able to show kindness it will always shine out and thats more beautiful than anything. So remember, looks aren't everything and kindness is everything.

Transparent EXO

HERE! Have a transparent EXO Christmas Tree that I made. I do not own the original photo. I just made it transparent. Have fun using. Please credit me if you use it okay. XD

You may download a proper one at the link below.

DOWNLOAD TRANSPARENT EXO CHRISTMAS TREE

Since 2009

I've had this blog since 2009 but I never knew what to do with it. Since I didn't use it, it was left alone to gather dust because I didn't bother to want to learn how to use a blog. I started to post in 2012 which led to only two posts but then I stopped.

I started back in 2013 which led up to almost the end of the year which is now and I am very proud of my blog and how I've managed to keep it alive. I am also honoured that a lot of you have viewed and read through my blog. Whether you agree with the things I've said or not, I appreciate it very much.

What kept me going was that I knew other people had problems similar to what I go through so why not share my experiences and help with others I thought. So I did. With the motivation from one of my best friends I did it and it's almost the end of the year.

I will continue to update this blog with my thoughts, experiences and advice to try and comfort those in need. 

^_^ 

Thank you for reading! <3

Quote

good grades do not determine your intelligence. So even if you didn't get a good grade, it's okay. We were all given the same exam but they cannot expect us all to be good in it. As long as you passed. 

-Kamilah

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

To those who celebrate Christmas,

 MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Have a joyful day today and please stay happy and stay safe.

I'm going to eat lunch now.

Have fun to those who celebrate by exchanging gifts, singing and loads more today. 

^_^

Comic Fiesta

So I went to Comic Fiesta on the 21st of December which was held at the KLCC convention Centre.

It was really fun and I pretty much burned put all the money I had but it's not everyday that I get to spend.

There were so many people, especially cosplayers. They all looked great and almost everyone was just friendly. I didn't go on the 2nd day though because I came down with a fever from the first day because I got hit by the rain. Anyway, I hope those who went enjoyed it as much as I did. This is becoming to be an anual thing with my friends and I now. ^_^

Not many photos because most of them are in my phone.

EXO GIF.

EXO GIF I MADE!

Please do not steal, simply ask for my permission if you would to use it ^_^

Advice: Why you shouldn't Lie.

Hello everybody!

I know I have not been doing advice lately but I think I know what to type about now.

Well you see, I've come across a few people who can't go a day without lying. Like telling lies and such. Why do you have to lie when it is easier to tell the truth? 

Do you know why it's easier to tell the truth?

It's because you won't have to keep covering up your first lie with another lie.

Lie once and you lie again to cover up the first lie and it goes on and on and on.

Yes, it is normal to tell white lies but it's not good to tell big lies which could ruin you.

So before you tell a big lie, tell yourself.. Is it really worth it?

It's better to tell the truth then to lie because in the end it will always backfire on you.

Exam Results/Updates/HELLO!

It's Monday here In Malaysia and so far the day looks quite alright I shall say. I want to tell you guys that I'll be getting my exam results soon, not long from now and I am quite nervous about them. Please pray and hope that I get good results and that I won't be making dying whale sounds. 

Please pray for me okaay.

XD Thank you!

Besides that, Christmas is also coming up and I know those who are celebrating it are still doing some preparations! Well, Keep going! 

And then a day after Christmas will be my mothers Birthday! yeay!

So right now I have to make plans on what to make. Which is tough and mind boggling.

Okay,type later. tata

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Oh Hello There! ^_^

Happy Sunday everyone. *laughs silently inside* It's already night but I hope those who are going through a Sunday on the other side have a greeeaaattt day!
Just a reminder, again that you have the power to make your day a wonderful day. Do something nice for someone and someone else will do something nice for you!
Do something that makes you happy and always be nice to people even if they aren't as nice to you.
Don't focus on the negative today or tomorrow, trust me when I say that if you think positive,your day will be good.

Going off for now everyone!
^_^

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Cupcakes

So, I made cupcakes yesterday. : D

Thank you!

To those who always view my blog and take advice from it...

I'm SOOOOO Happy :')

Quotes

Credits to the rightful owner of the photos

Don't Find Faults In Others

This goes out to people who forget about the reason why a person acts differently.

You find faults in others but you don't find the faults in yourself.

Ask yourself why people act the way they are and ask yourself how did they become that way. 

Sometimes we think we know about a person when actually we know nothing. They could be living a whole different life when they are at home, alone. 

We simply speak bad of others when we don't realise that we are being bad by speaking bad of them

If you need help.

I really don't care if you are someone I dislike, if you need my help, I will help you.
Conditions are that I will not help you if it is something bad.
I will only help you if you need good advice and comfort.
I will not help you if you want me to bash someone.
I will specifically not help you if you are rude or you are trying to manipulate me.
I will not reply to hate
I will not reply to rude comments

I will reply and help those who genuinely need help. Like a problem. I will help.
I am only here to give my best advice and comfort. If your problem is something more serious than you need professional help. ^^


manipulate: control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously

Happiness

My mother always told me to be happy for the little things in life. She is right in that sense. We SHOULD be happy for the little things in life.
Like oxygen, we need oxygen to be able to breathe, that's something to be happy about.
We have a home, even if there isn't much but we have enough to keep us out of the rain, that's something to be happy about as well.
And there are many more examples.

We get a few problems that sadden us but we are rewarded with hundreds and thousands that we should be happy about. It's a fact that sometimes we are blind and don't take the time to notice the little things to be happy about. We should learn to notice those little things so we won't turn into this horrible generation of greed.

You may not have gotten what you wanted today, but be happy for the things and people you have now. What you have now is something you should make of it and be happy about.
We shouldn't mourn over things we dont have or didnt get rather we should just be happy with what we already have.

Another thought in my mind, you control your own happiness. You should never depend on another person for your happiness because one day, they will let you down.
You control your own happiness and that is how it should be.
You may think that they would never make you sad but when you depend on them for happiness, they have the opportunity to crush it. Again, dont depend on others for happiness.

That is all for now. I have finally got ideas of what to write so I hope everyones will like it and learn from it and probably share it. :)

credits to rightful owner of the photos

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNrlwL8Ce4U&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Sorry Again

I don't really have much to say. My mind has not been able to offer you guyds advice today but I hope everyone is doing alright. Ignore the picture I guess. Umm..Is everyone still here? If you still view my blog, I am veru grateful and just thank you. I'm still feeling quite down, I will not deny but I really don't want to tell anyone the reason. But, everyday must go one and I would have to force a smile on my face. Thank you again to those who still view my blog. When I'm feeling better I will try to give some more advice and help probably a few tips too. I cant promise when but I will try. Goodbye for now.

Ps. Please check out EXO's new song Miracles In December. There is a Korean and Chinese version to the song and its veru touching.

I am sorry for not updating

Sorting myself out for a while. Sorry everyone. I'm really just mentally exhausted and it is showing on me physically. Reason? I am yet to find out. Sorry everyones. When I am better I will update my blog. For now pleasr just enjoy scrolling through old posts and pray that I will be okay soon cos I am just so tired of feeling like I am depressed. Although I cant diagnose it myself but it feels that way. Anyway, bye for now.

Ideas.

Currently just trying to think about of what to write next. #Aviary

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credits also to the people on tumblr.

Keep Praying For The Philippines

Image belongs to http://hannagal.blogspot.com/

As we all know, the Philippines was hit by typhoon Haiyan and left many filipinos without food and shelter.

We, as the people all over the country should take a moment to pray for them. If we are able to pray for the safety of our family and friends then let us pray for the people in the Philippines who needing it the most.

Imagine the hundreds and thousands and even millions of people including children over there without food or shelter. It's painful to hear about it and everytime I hear about the starving children there and how not all of them are able to get aid really makes me tear up. 

We all know that you are strong and can overcome this the Philippines!

You have everyone's prayers with you and wherever we go we will keep praying for all of you from the sincerity of our hearts!

A lesson to us all, all over the world, Disasters can happen anywhere at anytime and that should let us realise that we should also do our part to make sure it doesn't happen by taking care of our country well. Even the little things you do to help will actually turn into a big difference. 

If you would like to donate and help the children in the Philippines, you can click the link below that will take you to UNICEF. Donate the amount you want.

Keep Praying For The Philippines!

https://unicef.my/donations/emergency?utm_source=Reprise&utm_medium=TXT&utm_campaign=Haiyan

Appreciate what you have & your surroundings

Sorry I haven't been posting. I was just lazy. But I hope everyone is okay today.

Well, I would like to tell you that if you have a house to live and food to eat, you are considered very wealthy. Because there are thousands out there, right now at this very moment who don't even have homes or even food.
Please always be thankful for that.

We all know tgat recently The Philippines was hit by typhoon hiyan and it was massive and many lost their homes, family and even friends.
They are left without food and here we are, still able to eat and live comfortably. Please be thankful.

I would also like to say that my prayers go all out to the victims ib the Philippines that were caught in the typhoon and prayers to all of you who are having trouble.

This is also a lesson to all of us. We must start to appreciate the little things we have that actually make a big difference. We often forget about appreciating the important things in life.

Sorry if this is short but it is just a reminder that if we don't appreciate the things we have now, they can be taken away in an instant and it can happen to anyone.

Support

Hey everyone.. I just want to say that I miss one of my best friends. Since I'm unable to see her everyday I normally just stalk her blog. Her name is Fatehah.  Most of you know her because her blog link is on my blog. She's a really kind girl and I will always tell her that and I will always tell her that no matter how crap the world treats her, she can do it. 

Please support her blog.

http://myadvicetooyou.blogspot.com/

Also, this post is an appreciation post for my close best friends. Yes, I don't have one because I love them all equally.

Thank you to Fatehah, Viviee, Esha, Racheal, Ain, Katy and Zulaykha for being my great best friends even though we fight at times and argue. Even though we do argue, you guys are the reason I'm happy because you guys know how to make me happy. Thank you.

Thank you also to my seniors Priya and Hamsa for being two wonderful people who are there to help me as well. hehe

And If I have not mentioned any of you, I want to say Thank You in every little way that you have helped me. <3

Quotes

Quotes by http://www.iliketoquote.com/

Quick Advice Quotes

 Advice for the day everyone!  ^_^

“If a man will begin with certainties, he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts, he shall end in certainties.” 

― Francis Bacon, The Advancement Of Learning

“A mathematical formula for happiness:Reality divided by Expectations.There were two ways to be happy:improve your reality or lower your expectations.” 
― Jodi Picoult, Nineteen Minutes

“The only good thing to do with good advice is pass it on; it is never of any use to oneself.” 
― Oscar Wilde, An Ideal Husband

“The Four Agreements
1. Be impeccable with your word.
2. Don’t take anything personally.
3. Don’t make assumptions.
4. Always do your best. ” 
― Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom

“One of the greatest pieces of advice I’ve ever gotten in my life was from my mom. When I was a little kid there was a kid who was bugging me at school and she said “Okay, I’m gonna tell you what to do. If the kid’s bugging you and puts his hands on you; you pick up the nearest rock...” 
― Johnny Depp

“Don't try to solve serious matters in the middle of the night.” 
― Philip K. Dick

“I am glad that I paid so little attention to good advice; had I abided by it I might have been saved from some of my most valuable mistakes.” 
― Edna St. Vincent Millay

“Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t.” 
― Erica Jong

“If your clothes are enough to drive would-be friends away, they're not the kind of friends you want." 
Typical mother advice. Sweet, honest, and completely useless.” 
― Aprilynne Pike, Wings

“Opening up to the wrong person is like putting ammo in their hands.” 
― Lisa Kleypas, Sugar Daddy

AND MY FAVOURITE ONE.....

“Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.” 
― Steven Winterburn

So if you liked the quick advice quotes I've given then I'm so happy!

They aren't mine but sharing them would be a nice way to help in little ways!

And if all this while you did take my advice that I have written

here is my expression everyday....