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Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Advice: Smile
Sometimes, when I walk around town, I often see faces that don't look friendly at all. Why? Because they rarely smile. I understand that you can't always be smiling but don't you think it is courteous to smile if you were to look at someone and they were looking back. I am just speaking of the few people who do this though. The rest of you are very lovely.
Why am I saying this?
Because incase some of you didn't know, if you smiled at someone who looked like they were having a bad day, you might've just saved their life.
We are so caught up with our modern day gadgets that we forget to look at our surroundings. It is what the world is now and it's terrifying for me. A smile could change so much for a person and yourself.
A smile is what lightens up the face. It's a smile that shows beauty and handsome looks.
It's a smile that makes everything better.
A smile can be a reassurance to a friend in need and so much more.
So even If you don't like a certain person or someone that doesn't mean you should act all sour. Just smile.
Smile at times when you need to though. It helps yourself too. :)
(Advice/Help) You Are Worth It
I want all of you out there to take a moment and read what I have to say.
Many of you today are feeling like you are not worth anything. Let me remind you that each and every one of you are worth everything to this world. All of you hold something inside of you that is special.
Why are you worth it?
Because you were born into this world with a purpose that is worth sharing with the world.
You are worth it because I know you are strong to face challenges in life. You are worth it because I know yoi are strong. Don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.
Don't look at what others possess rather you should look at the wonderful things that you possess. Every one of you have different talents and that is what makes you worth it.
Dont let a guy or girl you love tell you that you aren't worth dating because there will come a day when you will find your Princess and Prince.
I may not know any of you but I know that you are worth it and you should always keep moving forward. Never give up because I know you can do it.
^.^
Quick Help/Advice Reminder
When you feel you have lost everything, you still have.......
- books
- unexpected kindness in strangers
- the rest of the world to travel
- languages to learn
- animals to take care of
- volunteer work to do
- the power of a good night’s rest
- the changing of seasons
- infinite things to learn
- billions of people to meet and possibly love
- billions of people who might love you back
Friday, September 20, 2013
Manners Matter
So today I went to the grocery store to buy some food to cook. The store was sort of full of people so it was quite cramp ya know. People were literally blocking the way like they own it. I mean, yea don't be selfish lady I need to get carrots too. As a mannered person, I wouldn't push my way through them, most of us would say "excuse me" or maybe a "can I please pass through?". Whatever seems logic. My point is that you should not ever push people like your father owns a road. It isn't nice. Be aware of your surroundings especially the people around you and when someone says excuse me, you better damn well hear it and move.
A few of you would think "pfftt manners dont matter" but really it does because it reflects who you are. And if who you are is a rude person without manners then probably people would blame your parents. So, you would probably be giving your family a bad name.
Smallest things can lead into bigger things everyone. Anyway, I like grocery shopping.
So manners matter a lot, when you are well mannered, people show you a lot more respect and look up to you. You don't have to act like a rude person to try and get respect.
^_^ so yea dont kill me.. Hahaga xD
Don't Judge What You See
I am aware that I am human and I make mistakes too. I have judged others and I have talked behind their backs but in the end, I realise that all of that is wrong. I know it's wrong so I make an effort to change myself and I have. And if I can change the bad side of me, what about some of you?
Like half of all of you out there judge people everyday by their appearance and by what people say, why do you do that? What benefit does it give to you?
First and far most, it is rude to judge a person without fully knowing them and it is rude to judge a person by what you see from what they are on the outside.
I know a few people who look nasty and act nasty but we will never know what contains in their hearts because I know for one that all humans would have feelings.
I may not like a few people but I certainly wouldn't say anything about them. We should always state the good sides of people, not just the bad.
Like half of all of you out there judge people everyday by their appearance and by what people say, why do you do that? What benefit does it give to you?
First and far most, it is rude to judge a person without fully knowing them and it is rude to judge a person by what you see from what they are on the outside.
I know a few people who look nasty and act nasty but we will never know what contains in their hearts because I know for one that all humans would have feelings.
I may not like a few people but I certainly wouldn't say anything about them. We should always state the good sides of people, not just the bad.
Sharing Is Caring
So everyone, my friend has a blog and she wants me to share it with all of you!!
She has a happy blog. It may not be filled with advice but it's got pictures.
Anyway, just click the link below to check it out!
Her name is Cassandra.
Quick Copy Paste Advice/Help.
Hello all you lovely fellows out there. Just to tell you that my exam is coming and only have a week left. Here is some quick advice and Help that I copied from https://www.facebook.com/DepressedQuotes .
Note to you: Remind yourself everyday that there is no one exactly like you and that is what makes you special. Remember that someone loves you and that you are never alone. Give yourself some time to heal and you will.
Anxiety: This too shall pass, even if that sounds corny and cliche. Your anxiety will subside, you are not dying, you will not die from this, everything is going to be fine. Keep taking deep breaths, try and stay focused.
Depression: You are valid and your emotions are valid. You are a good, strong person, even if you don't feel like you are right now. Things DO get better, and I know you can get through this.
Sexual Orientation: Your body, your life, your bedroom. You choose what you do with it, and I get no say in the matter, because I am not you. I'll respect you no matter what.
Bipolar: The sun also rises. For all your bad days, weeks, or longer-- you also have good ones just beyond the horizon. You know better than anyone what it means to finally hit those "highs" in your life, and I hope that you just keep growing and strengthening yourself through your treatment to extend those happy moments.
Self harm: This is your body and I'll never pass judgement over you for the things you choose to do with it. However, you should really consider speaking with a counselor about this. Not because you're "bad", but because I just want you to be safe.
Eating disorders: It's okay to eat, you have permission. Eating will not make you fat, ugly, or worthless. Eating will make you strong, healthy, and lively. You deserve to eat, you deserve happiness.
Abuse: What they did was wrong, and you had no consenting part in it. You have no need to feel guilty or shamed, although I understand that may be exactly how you are feeling right now. They're the ones at fault here, and the ball is entirely in your court if you choose to report them for that, which you are rightfully entitled to do.
Suicide: Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You are valuable and your existence is valuable. There are billions of people on this planet, and even if you think everyone hates you and no one cares, they do and they will. You can find so many friends and loved ones if you just allow yourself the time to look for them. The world turns out to be a beautiful place and you deserve to be alive to see that.
Sexual assault: What they did was vile and disgusting. Yes, you're now left with this horrible, traumatic event to move on from, but your life is not entirely lost. Recovery is possible, and an unfortunately large number of people have to go through that- - but they make it to the other side. So can you, you can do this. You're not dirty, you're not a "slut" or a "whore", you are a human being whose rights were violated. But you are strong, and I know you can move past this in due time.
Multiple Personality Disorder: I'll always love you no matter who you are. I only hope the absolute best for you during your recovery and treatment, and maybe one day I'll be so privileged as to love you as one whole.
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder: The pain of suddenly reliving horrific events is almost unimaginable for me. Please try and remember that although it feels like it's real and it's happening right now, that it's not. You are okay, you are fine, and you are safe. You are in the present here and now, and that past can't manifest itself again to come and physically hurt you. Everything is just fine, these feelings will pass and you're going to be okay.
Schizophrenia: I am real and I can promise you that. I care. Try and find something grounding for you, an object that you can cling to to help you distinguish between whether or not you're hallucinating. You are not a freak, you are not a monster. You're a human being with rights and emotions who happens to be ill right now.
Note to you: Remind yourself everyday that there is no one exactly like you and that is what makes you special. Remember that someone loves you and that you are never alone. Give yourself some time to heal and you will.
Anxiety: This too shall pass, even if that sounds corny and cliche. Your anxiety will subside, you are not dying, you will not die from this, everything is going to be fine. Keep taking deep breaths, try and stay focused.
Depression: You are valid and your emotions are valid. You are a good, strong person, even if you don't feel like you are right now. Things DO get better, and I know you can get through this.
Sexual Orientation: Your body, your life, your bedroom. You choose what you do with it, and I get no say in the matter, because I am not you. I'll respect you no matter what.
Bipolar: The sun also rises. For all your bad days, weeks, or longer-- you also have good ones just beyond the horizon. You know better than anyone what it means to finally hit those "highs" in your life, and I hope that you just keep growing and strengthening yourself through your treatment to extend those happy moments.
Self harm: This is your body and I'll never pass judgement over you for the things you choose to do with it. However, you should really consider speaking with a counselor about this. Not because you're "bad", but because I just want you to be safe.
Eating disorders: It's okay to eat, you have permission. Eating will not make you fat, ugly, or worthless. Eating will make you strong, healthy, and lively. You deserve to eat, you deserve happiness.
Abuse: What they did was wrong, and you had no consenting part in it. You have no need to feel guilty or shamed, although I understand that may be exactly how you are feeling right now. They're the ones at fault here, and the ball is entirely in your court if you choose to report them for that, which you are rightfully entitled to do.
Suicide: Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You are valuable and your existence is valuable. There are billions of people on this planet, and even if you think everyone hates you and no one cares, they do and they will. You can find so many friends and loved ones if you just allow yourself the time to look for them. The world turns out to be a beautiful place and you deserve to be alive to see that.
Sexual assault: What they did was vile and disgusting. Yes, you're now left with this horrible, traumatic event to move on from, but your life is not entirely lost. Recovery is possible, and an unfortunately large number of people have to go through that- - but they make it to the other side. So can you, you can do this. You're not dirty, you're not a "slut" or a "whore", you are a human being whose rights were violated. But you are strong, and I know you can move past this in due time.
Multiple Personality Disorder: I'll always love you no matter who you are. I only hope the absolute best for you during your recovery and treatment, and maybe one day I'll be so privileged as to love you as one whole.
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder: The pain of suddenly reliving horrific events is almost unimaginable for me. Please try and remember that although it feels like it's real and it's happening right now, that it's not. You are okay, you are fine, and you are safe. You are in the present here and now, and that past can't manifest itself again to come and physically hurt you. Everything is just fine, these feelings will pass and you're going to be okay.
Schizophrenia: I am real and I can promise you that. I care. Try and find something grounding for you, an object that you can cling to to help you distinguish between whether or not you're hallucinating. You are not a freak, you are not a monster. You're a human being with rights and emotions who happens to be ill right now.
Monday, September 16, 2013
I am Sorry
Hello everyone! I would just like to apologise for not posting enough advice for all of you to read. My mind is quite cluttered in what advice to give you. I have loads but I am unsure of what to type here. By the way, my exams are coming soon, please pray for me and my friends!
Please take good care of yourselves alright. :)
Thursday, September 12, 2013
Wish Me Luck!
I know it has been a while since I last made a post. Well...it's because I've been quite busy with studies. I really need all the luck and prayers I can get right now. Why? Because my exams are coming soon and I really need your prayers and "good luck's". I really appreciate everyone who visits my blog. Please pray for me everyone that I will be able to do my exam well and will get good grades. It would mean the world to me. And If I do not thank you later, I would like to thank you in advance.
Thank you to those who are praying for me and wishing me good luck from their hearts. :) Much Appreciated. I'll try and post a bit more.
Sunday, September 8, 2013
Advice from Fatehah & I
Don't always look at your phone all the time. Focus on people in front of you. When you do that you make the person feel bad. you have to always be there to talk to them when they need you or when you need them.
Spend a life with them you won't know that one day, they'll be gone. So spend time
with them even your friends or parents would be left out would they?
Love them, talk to them. BE ALIVE PEOPLE!!!
I would normally feel bad if my friend would be talking to me & then I would suddenly get a text message from someone. I would make it a point that if I have to reply a text while talking to the person in front of me, I would quickly type and still be looking at the person in front of me. A reason why you should pay attention to the person in front of you, rather than to reply a text which may not be as important. The person might be talking to you about their problems and they really need you to listen. Also, it is quite rude to always be looking at your phone screen and not paying attention to the person in front of you. It is rude because it seems as if you are not listening to them.
Besides that, you miss a whole lot of things around you when you just cling on to that phone of yours. I understand how we are so fixed to our phone but there are times when we should just put it down for a few minutes. A few minutes to just appreciate your surroundings and the people around you. Because in a few years time, everything will change. Nothing stays the same.
So I am advising you to sometimes just put your smartphones down, your tablets and things to enjoy how beautiful life is and it's surroundings. :)
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