Receiving advice. An understanding to it.

Receiving advice but the giver does not follow their own. An understanding to it

Never mind about who I am or who I was because that is not for anyone to have their say. Whatever I talked about or whatever advice I give is based on what I have been through or have been in the past. My advice does not mean that I follow every single bit of it but rather to share it with those who just might get something good out of it. Do you understand so far? I hope so.

People tend to ask why a person does not follow their own advice and that answer, even I cannot answer it. That is one problem right there. We are too busy wondering why others don't follow their own advice to even reflect ourselves or even take in what they have given. It is a waste, really. A waste that certain advice these people give are thrown away just because the giver of advice may have not followed their own words. Instead of pondering the thought about someone else, there is the thought of yourself and how that can be improved. Never point out if someone may not have followed their own words, rather take note of that good advice they have just given. Anything related to them(the advice giver) is invalid in your life and you should not ponder about it or try to drive them over the edge for it. The giver of advice is just as fragile as you are.

Remember that not everyone may follow their own advice but they will share it with those who they think may find it beneficial. Understand it and just take my word for it.


Next on my list.......
Pointing fingers but saying as if the words were not meant to hurt