EID MUBARAK.

ASSALAMUALAIKUM AND HELLO EVERYONE! <3

I told you I'd be able to update my blog during the holidays. 

Okay! So I've just started my holidays and I've already reached my hometown. I cannot wait to celebrate Eid Mubarak tomorrow, Malaysian time. I told you that I would update you on a few things that have happened but I'm lazy so I should leave it till the end of the week and update you all on what fun things have happened.

I just stop by to wish all my Muslim brothers and sisters in Malaysia, Selamat Hari Raya, Maaf Zahir & Batin! And to all Non-muslims a Happy holiday!

To those outside of the country who read my blog, have a Happy Eid Mubarak! 

Please forgive me If I've ever done any wrong or if I've ever hurt any of you in any way.

To those who have hurt me in the past, each and everyone one of you have been forgiven from the bottom of my heart!

KOSONG-KOSONG
zero-zero
Let's start a new book!
<3

-Images I do not own-

A little boost up for the week

Expect to give your cheque away if you push someone into a pool realising they had 600> dollars worth of items on them, preferably a cellphone. XD

Stay positive and happy this week everyone and I'm sure it will be a smooth week!

To those fasting on Ramadhan, a few more days left till Eid Mubarak and I am sure you are bound to miss this holy month. I hope all my Muslim family and friends spent their time well during this holy month.

And to those of you who are not Muslims, I hope you have had great days and had spent them wisely!

Always smile and try to keep positive. Pray for everyone and everything

<3

-I do not own-

PS. I will probably not be as active these few days to come, since I will be busy with school, extra classes and preparation for Eid Mubarak but I will try and update you all on what's going on! STICK AROUND OKAY! I mean literally, like you could stick yourself on my blog wall. lol

Quote of the Day

“Cause you never think that the last time is the last time. You think there will be more. You think you have forever, but you don’t.”

—	Meredith Grey, Grey’s Anatomy (via satans-ghost)

Stop Taking Advantage

Some people find it really convenient to take advantage of other people's generosity. 

When a person is being generous enough, certain people take advantage of it to ask for more. To people like you, don't you feel ashamed? Don't you feel the slightest of guilt for taking advantage over someone?

I sure would feel guilty if I did. Certain people are so caught up in using others as a benefit to themselves and not genuinely caring for them or the inconvenience that they cause. I can never seem to understand people like that.

I realise that these situations have happened to me in real life and it's not that I never realise them, It's just that I can't be bothered to voice them out. Now, I will voice them out. Okay, it is unfair for you to take advantage of people because you find them beneficial to your needs. It is unfair that you only stick around that person only when you need something. It is unfair to ask them to do things to help you and then asking "It's not too much too ask for right?" or "If it's okay with you?" because then we will feel obligated that we are forced to help you when you yourself would know that it is already a bother, knowing we already have other things to do. It is the most shameful thing I find of a person when they take advantage of someone.
People like you don't genuinely care about the people you take advantage of. The only time you'll be sad is if they go, then they can't provide you with the benefits they have given when they were around. These kind of things need to stop. Okay?

To me, it's perfectly fine if you need help from someone real badly but using people to the extent that they have to push away their own needs is too much.
It shouldn't be up to the extent that you rely on someone to be just a benefit to you. People aren't your friends with benefits. They aren't around for you to be taken advantage of.
I hope some of you realise that and learn from it before karma gets you good.

YOU NEED TO STOP TAKING ADVANTAGE OF PEOPLE WHO GENUINELY CARE ABOUT YOU!
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To the people who get easily taken advantage of, you need to realise that certain people are taking advantage of you. They'll ask you for a ton of "favours" and basically a non stop asking you for help with this and that. It is okay to help people when they need a favour done but it is not okay to help people until you neglect yourself and your needs and basically it is not okay to neglect your whole life just to help a person who doesn't consider you a priority when they are living a good life of their own. Don't let a person use you and then leave you alone. If you don't like the favours they ask you to do, reject them. Sometimes you have to be cruel and get the message across to people that enough is enough. 

Credits to rightful owner of photos above

My heartfelt condolence

My heartfelt condolences go out to the friends and families on board MH17

May we continue to pray for those who have been affected by this tragic incident and may we also pray for the people of Palestine and what is currently happening in Gaza as well as everywhere else in the world where people are currently going through a tragic moment.

Our prayers

FREEDOM FOR PALESTINE

You don't need to be a muslim to help, you only need to be human.

If we are unable to help Palestine physically then to those who hold on to a faith, Please pray for all the innocent souls who are being killed or in critical condition. Open your heart and open your mind. 

Killing innocent souls without a reason should never be supported!

This isn't a war between Israel and Palestine, it is Murder on Palestinians

Show me, Don't Tell me

To me, actions speak louder than words, so unless you don't show me some effort, I will rarely ever believe what you say to me especially if it is a promise or words that have been written that should be shown in actions rather than said. 

So many people seem to know how to say things but never meaning them. They say it to make people feel better but never really showing it. It's all meaningless and people who are in a state of sadness won't believe such things.

I don't believe in such things. I've met so many people telling me they'll help me, they'll be there for me but in the end, they ditch me and make me feel like a crumbling wall. To everyone who has been through these kind of things, don't let these kind of people pull you down, rather show them that you can stand on your own two feet and walk like nothing has happened. That is the best way.

When we are able to stand on our own two feet without relying on people to be there for us when we are down, we learn to live and not be dependant on someone. Be around people who bring out the best in you and not the low in you. People who ditch you, leave you with words they promise to fulfil are people you don't need to hang around with, people that should be erased to stop you from feeling negative.

Once you delete people who only bring you down out of your life, you'll come to a conclusion that you're happier than before.

Don't just stick to one person too! 

Mix around and get to know people around you and you'll broaden your knowledge and mind in so many things. You'll even gain better friends and make people know how much of a bright person you are. 

It's all possible. It's whether or not you are willing to do so.

From my experience, people who claim to be my friends but ditch me and do other countless hurtful things still remain as acquaintances and I treat them as usual but never special.

If you learned a thing or two from my post and found it beneficial, I'm thankful that I've somehow helped.

Credits to rightful owner of photos

7 Reasons Arts are Important

Credits to Rightful owner of photo

1. 1.They are languages that all people speak that cut across racial, cultural, social, educational, and economic barriers and enhance cultural appreciation and awareness.
2. 2.They provide opportunities for self-expression, bringing the inner world into the outer world of concrete reality.
3. 3.They develop both independence and collaboration.
4. 4.They make it possible to use personal strengths in meaningful ways and to bridge into understanding sometimes difficult abstractions through these strengths.
5. 5.They improve academic achievement -- enhancing test scores, attitudes, social skills, critical and creative thinking.
6. 6.They exercise and develop higher order thinking skills including analysis, synthesis, evaluation, and "problem-finding."
7. 7.They provide the means for every student to learn.

Adapted from "Why the arts are important?" by Dee Dickenson

When Someone

“When someone makes you the happiest person and the saddest person at the same time, that’s when it’s real. That’s when it’s worth something.”

—	(via jayce-park)

Quotes for today

“Nothing can wear you out like caring about people.”

—	S.E. Hinton, That Was Then, This Is Now (via whitebeyonce)

 “That’s the thing about friendship. It’s a lot rarer than love because there’s nothing in it for anybody.”

—	(via thepepperinyourpot)

Never

-Credits to the rightful owner of the photos above-

Little souls

 
-Credits to the rightful owner of the photos above-

treesenpai:

step over ants
put worms back in the grass
rescue baby caterpillars
release spiders back into your garden
open windows for bees to fly home
they are all little souls that deserve a life too

Thoughts at 1AM

Never thought I'd be active so late at night.

I've been in a cheerful mood lately, I'm not sure why but every negative barrier around me has broken down so there is nothing left but happiness. I am so thankful about that because God has given me strength to overcome negative energy. It's true when they say that you yourself control your happiness. No one else should make you think you don't deserve to be happy, no one. I may have had rough days since I was selected as the head Directing manager for our school's Graphic exhibition but it never really bothered to ruin my mood even though it did manage to break me down once, I got up feeling stronger, thanks to my close friends for comforting me.
It taught me that I should put aside every single negative thing and only focus on the positive. That's how it works. That is exactly what I'm doing. When you focus on everything in a positive way, your mood and the way you run your life changes. It changes in a good way and for the better I shall say.
Occasionally I would want to rant on how some people are really mean but having said that, I never forget to say the good things about them either. That's one. Other things, which may also have their flaws are things that disturb me as well but putting it aside and focusing on the good side of it changes my whole perspective and makes me feel like a better person. There will be times that I would give in but I guess that's normal considering I am only a mere human with flaws, I accept that.

Having said all of that, It's an amazing thing what little changes you do in your life are the ones that have a big impact.

-Credits to the rightful owner of the photos above-

Basket Cat

If you're having a bad day, just let me tell you that my cat sat in a basket that wasn't his size today for a good 10 minutes for no apparent reason. I guess he thought it was comfortable but nevertheless, here's a photo of him. His name is Mitch!

Ignore the DAD painting behind, that was part of my dad's birthday surprise.

If this cat doesn't brighten your mood a little, there's always other fun stuff to do! <3

More photos of my precious babies so click the link below to have a look!

http://kamilahila.deviantart.com/