Saturday, July 12, 2014

Show me, Don't Tell me



To me, actions speak louder than words, so unless you don't show me some effort, I will rarely ever believe what you say to me especially if it is a promise or words that have been written that should be shown in actions rather than said. 

So many people seem to know how to say things but never meaning them. They say it to make people feel better but never really showing it. It's all meaningless and people who are in a state of sadness won't believe such things.
I don't believe in such things. I've met so many people telling me they'll help me, they'll be there for me but in the end, they ditch me and make me feel like a crumbling wall. To everyone who has been through these kind of things, don't let these kind of people pull you down, rather show them that you can stand on your own two feet and walk like nothing has happened. That is the best way.

When we are able to stand on our own two feet without relying on people to be there for us when we are down, we learn to live and not be dependant on someone. Be around people who bring out the best in you and not the low in you. People who ditch you, leave you with words they promise to fulfil are people you don't need to hang around with, people that should be erased to stop you from feeling negative.

Once you delete people who only bring you down out of your life, you'll come to a conclusion that you're happier than before.

Don't just stick to one person too! 
Mix around and get to know people around you and you'll broaden your knowledge and mind in so many things. You'll even gain better friends and make people know how much of a bright person you are. 
It's all possible. It's whether or not you are willing to do so.
From my experience, people who claim to be my friends but ditch me and do other countless hurtful things still remain as acquaintances and I treat them as usual but never special.
If you learned a thing or two from my post and found it beneficial, I'm thankful that I've somehow helped.


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