Friday, July 18, 2014

Stop Taking Advantage

Some people find it really convenient to take advantage of other people's generosity. 
When a person is being generous enough, certain people take advantage of it to ask for more. To people like you, don't you feel ashamed? Don't you feel the slightest of guilt for taking advantage over someone?
I sure would feel guilty if I did. Certain people are so caught up in using others as a benefit to themselves and not genuinely caring for them or the inconvenience that they cause. I can never seem to understand people like that.



I realise that these situations have happened to me in real life and it's not that I never realise them, It's just that I can't be bothered to voice them out. Now, I will voice them out. Okay, it is unfair for you to take advantage of people because you find them beneficial to your needs. It is unfair that you only stick around that person only when you need something. It is unfair to ask them to do things to help you and then asking "It's not too much too ask for right?" or "If it's okay with you?" because then we will feel obligated that we are forced to help you when you yourself would know that it is already a bother, knowing we already have other things to do. It is the most shameful thing I find of a person when they take advantage of someone.
People like you don't genuinely care about the people you take advantage of. The only time you'll be sad is if they go, then they can't provide you with the benefits they have given when they were around. These kind of things need to stop. Okay?

To me, it's perfectly fine if you need help from someone real badly but using people to the extent that they have to push away their own needs is too much.
It shouldn't be up to the extent that you rely on someone to be just a benefit to you. People aren't your friends with benefits. They aren't around for you to be taken advantage of.
I hope some of you realise that and learn from it before karma gets you good.

YOU NEED TO STOP TAKING ADVANTAGE OF PEOPLE WHO GENUINELY CARE ABOUT YOU!
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To the people who get easily taken advantage of, you need to realise that certain people are taking advantage of you. They'll ask you for a ton of "favours" and basically a non stop asking you for help with this and that. It is okay to help people when they need a favour done but it is not okay to help people until you neglect yourself and your needs and basically it is not okay to neglect your whole life just to help a person who doesn't consider you a priority when they are living a good life of their own. Don't let a person use you and then leave you alone. If you don't like the favours they ask you to do, reject them. Sometimes you have to be cruel and get the message across to people that enough is enough. 






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