Gloomy Saturday

Despite the gloomy weather today, I try my best to fill it up with positive things and of course, fun things. It's raining so going out of the house is a bit troublesome at this time. So, the internet takes me away or simply just hanging out with my mum and talk loads. And then I remembered, WE HAVE COCONUT JUICE in the fridge! 

Coconut juice and internet for me is haven, sort of but I'm with my mum and my two cats right about now. You can still hear the little pitter patter of raindrops that hit against the window. Enjoyable really and this post is pointless but I just wanted to tell you I had coconut and it was raining and that I've been looking to the positive side of things. I just don't want to let things ruin my happiness. 

MY COCONUT

       

Droplets of rain 

I hope you enjoyed my pointless post. 

I just want to get the message out there that any day can be a good day, it's about how we look at things and what we make of it!

Spend your time wisely and fill it in with the best things that will make you happy. 

Minor flu but I got books!

Bad news is that I've come down with the flue? Or just a minor bug that's eating me on the inside. Just kidding but my ear, nose and especially my throat are killing me. Been numbing it with Ice-cream. Good news is that yesterday I went for the Big Bad Wolf Book fair/sale and bought loads of books and puzzles. By the way, I must've caught that minor bug attack during the time of the book fair because there were many people, maybe. lol BOOKS THOUGH!

Normally these pretty little pocket puzzles would be too costly but not this time.

Got myself four different types because I can. 

Random books. Not really. I quite like what the story was about anyway.

Mum grabbed this book for me, she guessed it would be useful if I were to 

continue and take Graphic Design. :)

A book of coronation questions, I don't know why I got that.

Another book my mum chose because I suck at math.

Basically a lot of books to help improve my photography and an understanding of it.

Cupcake recipes book because I need more ideas.

A huge book with all the greatest logo designs because I need an idea of 

how to make a logo for next year's exhibition.

LASTLY,

BADGES!!! WHO DOES NOT LOVE THEM?!

Also, I have finished my commissions now on to the CARDS and revising on my school books

T_T Nuuuuuu.

That's all for tonight. I'm sick and sleepy but I'll be going again tomorrow. 

Alhamdulillah, Allah has given enough rezeki to my family for us to be able to afford books to gain more knowledge. :)

PEACE OUT YO!

Hiatus & Pet Peeves

I was on hiatus for a very, very, very long time. I'm sorry for that.
After exams I just needed a break from my blog and the seemingly useless advice I would normally give. While I was away, I was just working on my photography and other artsy things to numb the pain in my mind and to numb other things that have hurt me. In the process I just wanted to heal myself so I did.

One of my biggest pet peeves is listening to people who don't practice what they preach. I'm really sorry if that came off as offensive but it really burns my guts to listen to someone brag on and on about a certain thing and how they find it wrong and the next thing you know it, doing what they so called said was "wrong". Please don't hurt our brains for that.

I'll be fair, I am very appreciative towards people that do talk advice and such but if you aren't going to practice what you preach, what is the point? If you advise people on not to do certain things then you should practice what you speak as well. I've probably met a few people who go on and on about how they hate fake people but is it not fake when you're talking trash behind a friend's back and putting a fake smile when you're in front of them? That's hypocrisy right then and there.
I'm very disappointed in the amount of people who claim they can give the best advice but are only hurting the one's with the real problems. And no, not you, unless you felt hurt reading this then maybe you have to look at yourself as well.

That's one of my biggest pet peeves. What is yours?
It could be me and the way I blog or something else. Have your say!

QUICK TIP

If you're not fond of a person's religion, please do not act cruel towards them. Please respect them and their religion. Each religion teaches people to be kind to one another although in some parts of things, we are different but as humans, we are the same. Religion is a sensitive issue and shouldn't be made fun of or be looked down upon. Just because things are taught differently in different religions does not give us the right to look down upon other religion or people in that matter. Look towards everything, equally.

:)
Have a nice week everyone!

SEEK PROPER HELP

Everyone in the world faces problems. Whether they are big problems or small problems, they are still problems and should never be treated lightly. You can't expect everyone to understand your problems because let us all be sincere about this, the only person who knows your problems the most is yourself and God if you hold on to a belief. If a person says they understand you perfectly, they may only understand it how they think it would be but to fully understand? Only you know what it is like.

If you told someone to try and feel what you felt if they were in your shoes, yes everyone would feel sympathy for you and everyone would feel sorry for you but don't ever tell a person your problems are worse than theirs or talk as if it were. They can understand up to a point where you can explain but you can never expect everyone to treat you with kindness and special treatment because it would be unfair to every other person out there. Unless you suffer from a mental illness or illnesses in general, it's understandable. It is enough that people make each other feel shit because of their lack of understanding towards each other. No two people will fully understand each other and you can't expect people to make time to think about the problems you go through because people have their own. To resolve it, is to talk about it with people such as counsellor's, teachers, psychiatrists, parents but with friends it is only a 50/50 understanding because they have their own problems to deal with.

Everyone has a bloody weakness, including me. Everyone has a problem, including me but the patience to understand another person is tougher than how it seems and it would be good enough not to boast your problems to the world as if they were bigger than anyone else's because everyone's problems are a big issue and with that, everyone should tolerate each other. If a problem occurs, seek help, not spread hate and dissatisfaction because it will only break other people and more problems will keep adding.

Stop spreading the hate problems and start loving. Seek help when a problem occurs.

ENOUGH.

I'll be away for a bit but it's not like I'm going to disappear forever.
I'd like to get a few things straight here about the internet.

Over the years, the internet has played a huge role in our daily lives, especially for people in their younger ages. Social networking for instance, it's a place people log on to connect with people. Sure it's a good thing, if you're wise and you know how to use it well.
For those who aren't? They abuse the privilege of what social networks have to offer. Using it to indirect people, to pour out their feelings of hatred and disgust, to harass people and the list could go on. These are the few negative impacts and dangers of the social networking sites. No one blames the social networking sites because they had only created it for good causes and never negative ones.
We as the people should be the ones educated enough knowing how to use it properly.


Indirect/Bashing
Majority of the people who love to bash others and indirect talk them feel superior behind a screen of a computer or a smart phone but having the guts to say to a person in real life? Never will they or rarely will they ever. You shouldn't be afraid of these kind of people because they have an inferiority complex, low self-esteem in that matter. They aren't as confident as you think they are and you'd be surprised to find out that you've been more confident then they have. No matter, it's best to talk it out with each other so the problem will be resolved. There is no reason to ignore the opposite opponent just because they have been rude to you through the internet or in real life. Make a mends and that goes for the person who is guilty of bashing. Constant ignorance won't get any of you anywhere and the bashing and indirect status updates will keep continuing if it is not resolved.

PS: But I suggest that if a person bashes you and you do not know them, kindly try to ignore them because they are not people worth your time or aliens in that matter. The more you feed them attention, the more they will continue to hurt you so if it seems to bother you, take a day or two off of the internet and you'll notice that things are better and that people can't ruin your happy circle! :)

PPS: Never forget that both opponents should apologise, unless the guilty one was the one bashing then please own up to your own actions because that indirect crap hurts people.


I think enough is enough. 

It's not advice

It's not advice if you're telling people to not befriend a person just because they can't seem to find themselves. It's a duty for people around to help guide them and not be cruel to them.

Where does an adviser stand if the only thing they can say is to ignore the people who are problematic and lost, when they are suppose to help the problematic and the one's who are lost.

Where do you stand if you are a person of advice but never able to listen to both sides of the stories.

Where do you stand if you have no backbone of your own?

As far as I'm concerned, I am willing to help any person no matter what.

I am in the middle of my final exam in 10th grade so the chances of me updating as frequently will be very low considering that I'm a procrastinator and I suck at managing time, but I will try and space out some time to write for you all.

As for my exams, I really hope I'll do well and it would be a great help if everyone of you could please hope or pray for the best for me. I really need the boost right about now and if you've done so, A really big thank you in advance! <3

In case if you wonder if I'm dead or something, feel free to check out my photography blog considering that I'm active there because I just post photos that I have taken during my walks and short journey's throughout the city! And cats! definitely go there for cats!

http://littleberrymomo-photography.tumblr.com/

Receiving advice. An understanding to it.

Receiving advice but the giver does not follow their own. An understanding to it

Never mind about who I am or who I was because that is not for anyone to have their say. Whatever I talked about or whatever advice I give is based on what I have been through or have been in the past. My advice does not mean that I follow every single bit of it but rather to share it with those who just might get something good out of it. Do you understand so far? I hope so.

People tend to ask why a person does not follow their own advice and that answer, even I cannot answer it. That is one problem right there. We are too busy wondering why others don't follow their own advice to even reflect ourselves or even take in what they have given. It is a waste, really. A waste that certain advice these people give are thrown away just because the giver of advice may have not followed their own words. Instead of pondering the thought about someone else, there is the thought of yourself and how that can be improved. Never point out if someone may not have followed their own words, rather take note of that good advice they have just given. Anything related to them(the advice giver) is invalid in your life and you should not ponder about it or try to drive them over the edge for it. The giver of advice is just as fragile as you are.

Remember that not everyone may follow their own advice but they will share it with those who they think may find it beneficial. Understand it and just take my word for it.


Next on my list.......
Pointing fingers but saying as if the words were not meant to hurt

Unsure

I haven't been active for so long and for some reason I've lost all motivation to do so. I'll need some time to get back to my cheerful self and to try and regain my positive side and have a chance to be on my own for a bit.

What is the root cause of every friendship problem? Even though that question has been answered many times, I still ponder the thought of the proper answer to that question. It differs depending on situation but I've asked so many people and I could never get the answer I was looking for. Was it the miscommunication? The petty things friends had kept inside? The petty things that they were envious about? uncountable.

Whatever the answer is, one day it'll be answered. I was thankful to my counselors because they were there to listen and comfort me during school hours and I'm thankful to have my parents who have been trying to be as understanding as possible and the friends I never thought would comfort me. Whatever could have made me feel down, went away. 


I've made a photography blog, please check it out!
http://littleberrymomo-photography.tumblr.com/

Happy Late Independence Day, MALAYSIA!

MALAYSIA'S INDEPENDENCE DAY

31/08/2014

First and far most, I am really sorry that I was unable to update my blog on Merdeka itself but here is my apology/Merdeka post!

I was silly to have forgotten to bring along my laptop charger when I was going to my home town, so there I was, stuck without a charger. Buying seemed quite a waste since I knew I would be back in the next few days.

I hope everyone had a great Independence Day. We Malaysians had celebrated our 57TH Independence day and if you think that isn't amazing, I do not know what to say. It was a day where we were able to put aside the differences in our races, our religions and to put aside politics and more to join together and celebrate this memorable day once again. It was a day of happiness and to be thankful that we live in a country where we live in peace.

As you are all aware, this years Merdeka theme was adapted from the lyrics of the song Warisan that was sung by none other than Dato' Sudirman bin Haji Arshad. Those who know him would not have trouble with this but to my non Malaysian viewers, wikipedia is a few clicks away.

I have to say, although I was unable to celebrate Merdeka to the extent where I would jump up and wave my flag, I would always keep a flag with me at all times, symbolising that I'll forever have the Merdeka spirit in me. Once again, I hope this years Merdeka was as awesome as any other year and may we treasure each Independence day, each year. May we never forget what the people have done for us to give us the Inependence we hold today. May we never forget to stay together as 1Malaysia., as united as ever. Never forget about the people who sacrificed their lives to give us a brighter future as today in peace. Never forget what Independence day is all about.

Never let anyone take away our Independence day, Never.
My belated

"Selamat Menyambut Hari Kemerdekaan Yang ke 57!!!"

MALAYSIA DI SINI LAHIRNYA SEBUAH CINTA


I am forever a proud Malaysian. I will forever be a Malaysian and I will carry my nationality as a Malaysian till' the day I die.
Tanah tumpahnya darahku.

Get Better :)

I didn't know what title to put this under but I have a hunch that it's the type of advice that might help you get better mentally if you're feeling down about yourself so I decided to title it "Get Better" because my mind is also on writers block. 

Enjoy! :)

People tend to judge themselves based on what others have that they don't.
It's got to stop because it is destroying you. You may think it isn't bothering you but you'll always find yourself thinking you are useless when comparing yourself to others. 
You'll always feel down, annoyed, hurt, disappointed and it depends on how you look at things, you may even scoff thinking you are better and who knows what other emotion, simply because you are comparing yourself to another person.

It will make you an even bitter person within your own eyes and even the eyes of people. So don't be surprised when people start giving you less of the attention because you brought it upon yourself. Not to be harsh in that last sentence...//sorry//

So here, to try and get rid of all that, you have to tell yourself that comparing yourself with another person isn't a good way to know your self worth. Yes, some people may be better at other things but are they you? No.
You are different and you have your own talents, uniqueness and a different level of creativity. It will take time for you to shine but you must always tell yourself these positive things. Give yourself a hug and love yourself.
You cannot say you love someone if you don't love yourself.
Tell yourself you are worth loads more than how people describe you to be.

You must also learn to forgive yourself and forgive others, whatever hatred you have towards yourself and others must be thrown away. Convince that to yourself everyday and you'll start feeling lighter. When hatred is gone, so is the heavy feeling in yourself.
When you start to love yourself, you will start to genuinely love everyone and everything around you because hatred is no longer there.

When a bad day suddenly appears, try not to worry because you must always tell yourself that you will make the most out of today and be at your best, the best you can be even for a day. Never forget to smile to the people around you even if they may look as bitter as a bittergourd. You could be the reason for their smile. Make jokes but mind your words and mind your manners. Walk happily and energetically. Don't slouch and moan at the thought of your next class, be happy about things. It will rub off on other people.

When someone hurts you, don't feel the need to backfire and hurt them back, tell yourself that this is only some small pathetic thing that It could be easily swept away. Ignore it. If you have a joke to say, say it and then laugh at it. Don't let people ruin your day or other people's and don't let yourself ruin it either because the only thing that is preventing you to be happy, is YOU. 
And one last out of topic thing is.....

If you put yourself out there, knowing that the consequences of being criticised is high, you have to deal with it because you can't expect everyone to like how you are or we for that matter. You have to be strong and realise it.

I don't intend to be cruel but I couldn't really get the message across in such a polite way so this was the best I could do.

Thank you.. <3

How many times do we pay for one mistake?

“How many times do we pay for one mistake? The answer is thousands of times. The human is the only animal on earth that pays a thousand times for the same mistake. The rest of the animals pay once for every mistake they make. But not us. We have a powerful memory. We make a mistake, we judge ourselves, we find ourselves guilty, and we punish ourselves. If justice exists, then that was enough; we don’t need to do it again. But every time we remember, we judge ourselves again, we are guilty again and we punish ourselves again, and again, and again.”

—	Don Miguel Ruiz (via purplebuddhaproject)

Lost,Loved and Won

“I have lost and loved and won and cried myself to the person I am today.”

—	Charlotte Eriksson, Empty Roads & Broken Bottles; in search for The Great Perhaps (via perfect)

EID MUBARAK.

ASSALAMUALAIKUM AND HELLO EVERYONE! <3

I told you I'd be able to update my blog during the holidays. 

Okay! So I've just started my holidays and I've already reached my hometown. I cannot wait to celebrate Eid Mubarak tomorrow, Malaysian time. I told you that I would update you on a few things that have happened but I'm lazy so I should leave it till the end of the week and update you all on what fun things have happened.

I just stop by to wish all my Muslim brothers and sisters in Malaysia, Selamat Hari Raya, Maaf Zahir & Batin! And to all Non-muslims a Happy holiday!

To those outside of the country who read my blog, have a Happy Eid Mubarak! 

Please forgive me If I've ever done any wrong or if I've ever hurt any of you in any way.

To those who have hurt me in the past, each and everyone one of you have been forgiven from the bottom of my heart!

KOSONG-KOSONG
zero-zero
Let's start a new book!
<3

-Images I do not own-

A little boost up for the week

Expect to give your cheque away if you push someone into a pool realising they had 600> dollars worth of items on them, preferably a cellphone. XD

Stay positive and happy this week everyone and I'm sure it will be a smooth week!

To those fasting on Ramadhan, a few more days left till Eid Mubarak and I am sure you are bound to miss this holy month. I hope all my Muslim family and friends spent their time well during this holy month.

And to those of you who are not Muslims, I hope you have had great days and had spent them wisely!

Always smile and try to keep positive. Pray for everyone and everything

<3

-I do not own-

PS. I will probably not be as active these few days to come, since I will be busy with school, extra classes and preparation for Eid Mubarak but I will try and update you all on what's going on! STICK AROUND OKAY! I mean literally, like you could stick yourself on my blog wall. lol

Quote of the Day

“Cause you never think that the last time is the last time. You think there will be more. You think you have forever, but you don’t.”

—	Meredith Grey, Grey’s Anatomy (via satans-ghost)

Stop Taking Advantage

Some people find it really convenient to take advantage of other people's generosity. 

When a person is being generous enough, certain people take advantage of it to ask for more. To people like you, don't you feel ashamed? Don't you feel the slightest of guilt for taking advantage over someone?

I sure would feel guilty if I did. Certain people are so caught up in using others as a benefit to themselves and not genuinely caring for them or the inconvenience that they cause. I can never seem to understand people like that.

I realise that these situations have happened to me in real life and it's not that I never realise them, It's just that I can't be bothered to voice them out. Now, I will voice them out. Okay, it is unfair for you to take advantage of people because you find them beneficial to your needs. It is unfair that you only stick around that person only when you need something. It is unfair to ask them to do things to help you and then asking "It's not too much too ask for right?" or "If it's okay with you?" because then we will feel obligated that we are forced to help you when you yourself would know that it is already a bother, knowing we already have other things to do. It is the most shameful thing I find of a person when they take advantage of someone.
People like you don't genuinely care about the people you take advantage of. The only time you'll be sad is if they go, then they can't provide you with the benefits they have given when they were around. These kind of things need to stop. Okay?

To me, it's perfectly fine if you need help from someone real badly but using people to the extent that they have to push away their own needs is too much.
It shouldn't be up to the extent that you rely on someone to be just a benefit to you. People aren't your friends with benefits. They aren't around for you to be taken advantage of.
I hope some of you realise that and learn from it before karma gets you good.

YOU NEED TO STOP TAKING ADVANTAGE OF PEOPLE WHO GENUINELY CARE ABOUT YOU!
.......

To the people who get easily taken advantage of, you need to realise that certain people are taking advantage of you. They'll ask you for a ton of "favours" and basically a non stop asking you for help with this and that. It is okay to help people when they need a favour done but it is not okay to help people until you neglect yourself and your needs and basically it is not okay to neglect your whole life just to help a person who doesn't consider you a priority when they are living a good life of their own. Don't let a person use you and then leave you alone. If you don't like the favours they ask you to do, reject them. Sometimes you have to be cruel and get the message across to people that enough is enough. 

Credits to rightful owner of photos above

My heartfelt condolence

My heartfelt condolences go out to the friends and families on board MH17

May we continue to pray for those who have been affected by this tragic incident and may we also pray for the people of Palestine and what is currently happening in Gaza as well as everywhere else in the world where people are currently going through a tragic moment.

Our prayers

FREEDOM FOR PALESTINE

You don't need to be a muslim to help, you only need to be human.

If we are unable to help Palestine physically then to those who hold on to a faith, Please pray for all the innocent souls who are being killed or in critical condition. Open your heart and open your mind. 

Killing innocent souls without a reason should never be supported!

This isn't a war between Israel and Palestine, it is Murder on Palestinians

Show me, Don't Tell me

To me, actions speak louder than words, so unless you don't show me some effort, I will rarely ever believe what you say to me especially if it is a promise or words that have been written that should be shown in actions rather than said. 

So many people seem to know how to say things but never meaning them. They say it to make people feel better but never really showing it. It's all meaningless and people who are in a state of sadness won't believe such things.

I don't believe in such things. I've met so many people telling me they'll help me, they'll be there for me but in the end, they ditch me and make me feel like a crumbling wall. To everyone who has been through these kind of things, don't let these kind of people pull you down, rather show them that you can stand on your own two feet and walk like nothing has happened. That is the best way.

When we are able to stand on our own two feet without relying on people to be there for us when we are down, we learn to live and not be dependant on someone. Be around people who bring out the best in you and not the low in you. People who ditch you, leave you with words they promise to fulfil are people you don't need to hang around with, people that should be erased to stop you from feeling negative.

Once you delete people who only bring you down out of your life, you'll come to a conclusion that you're happier than before.

Don't just stick to one person too! 

Mix around and get to know people around you and you'll broaden your knowledge and mind in so many things. You'll even gain better friends and make people know how much of a bright person you are. 

It's all possible. It's whether or not you are willing to do so.

From my experience, people who claim to be my friends but ditch me and do other countless hurtful things still remain as acquaintances and I treat them as usual but never special.

If you learned a thing or two from my post and found it beneficial, I'm thankful that I've somehow helped.

Credits to rightful owner of photos

7 Reasons Arts are Important

Credits to Rightful owner of photo

1. 1.They are languages that all people speak that cut across racial, cultural, social, educational, and economic barriers and enhance cultural appreciation and awareness.
2. 2.They provide opportunities for self-expression, bringing the inner world into the outer world of concrete reality.
3. 3.They develop both independence and collaboration.
4. 4.They make it possible to use personal strengths in meaningful ways and to bridge into understanding sometimes difficult abstractions through these strengths.
5. 5.They improve academic achievement -- enhancing test scores, attitudes, social skills, critical and creative thinking.
6. 6.They exercise and develop higher order thinking skills including analysis, synthesis, evaluation, and "problem-finding."
7. 7.They provide the means for every student to learn.

Adapted from "Why the arts are important?" by Dee Dickenson

When Someone

“When someone makes you the happiest person and the saddest person at the same time, that’s when it’s real. That’s when it’s worth something.”

—	(via jayce-park)

Quotes for today

“Nothing can wear you out like caring about people.”

—	S.E. Hinton, That Was Then, This Is Now (via whitebeyonce)

 “That’s the thing about friendship. It’s a lot rarer than love because there’s nothing in it for anybody.”

—	(via thepepperinyourpot)

Never

-Credits to the rightful owner of the photos above-

Little souls

 
-Credits to the rightful owner of the photos above-

treesenpai:

step over ants
put worms back in the grass
rescue baby caterpillars
release spiders back into your garden
open windows for bees to fly home
they are all little souls that deserve a life too

Thoughts at 1AM

Never thought I'd be active so late at night.

I've been in a cheerful mood lately, I'm not sure why but every negative barrier around me has broken down so there is nothing left but happiness. I am so thankful about that because God has given me strength to overcome negative energy. It's true when they say that you yourself control your happiness. No one else should make you think you don't deserve to be happy, no one. I may have had rough days since I was selected as the head Directing manager for our school's Graphic exhibition but it never really bothered to ruin my mood even though it did manage to break me down once, I got up feeling stronger, thanks to my close friends for comforting me.
It taught me that I should put aside every single negative thing and only focus on the positive. That's how it works. That is exactly what I'm doing. When you focus on everything in a positive way, your mood and the way you run your life changes. It changes in a good way and for the better I shall say.
Occasionally I would want to rant on how some people are really mean but having said that, I never forget to say the good things about them either. That's one. Other things, which may also have their flaws are things that disturb me as well but putting it aside and focusing on the good side of it changes my whole perspective and makes me feel like a better person. There will be times that I would give in but I guess that's normal considering I am only a mere human with flaws, I accept that.

Having said all of that, It's an amazing thing what little changes you do in your life are the ones that have a big impact.

-Credits to the rightful owner of the photos above-

Basket Cat

If you're having a bad day, just let me tell you that my cat sat in a basket that wasn't his size today for a good 10 minutes for no apparent reason. I guess he thought it was comfortable but nevertheless, here's a photo of him. His name is Mitch!

Ignore the DAD painting behind, that was part of my dad's birthday surprise.

If this cat doesn't brighten your mood a little, there's always other fun stuff to do! <3

More photos of my precious babies so click the link below to have a look!

http://kamilahila.deviantart.com/

How I feel

"Taking arts is a waste of time, It's like there's no future for people who take arts."

As a student, yes I am taking arts and having to deal with people saying negative things about what I choose, hurts. 

The mentality of certain people. 

Whether we want to take arts as our major, that is our problem and not YOURS. If you are so confident that whatever you're taking will get you to a better future then go ahead but never tell someone that it seems impossible for them to succeed. NEVER. Whether they take arts, science or business, never tell them negative things as if they won't succeed.

It pisses me off and hurts me when people tell me that taking arts won't really get me anywhere. Let me ask you something then. How would you know if I won't succeed? Will the course your taking now make you succeed in life as well? You don't know your future either so why judge ours? 

A person may be well off taking science but that does not mean they have a brighter future. Arts may not look like much but to people like us, it means a lot and also will get us somewhere in life. You'll never know. 

I'll give you one good example then. She's a person I admire the most and she's my mum. When she was about my age, she took arts as well and she succeeded in life because of it. No, she wasn't an artist but she worked in a very good place, I won't say where but the company is one of the leading companies known worldwide that represents Malaysia. I can honestly tell you that I'm not bullshitting about this sort of thing. She had a good position in her job and a good pay. She was successful.

So it comes to show that it doesn't matter what course you take, you can still succeed if you're willing to learn new things.

No one will ever stay the same

No one will ever be the same person they once were a year ago or even a day ago. People change and people leave or they may not seem as close to you. It's normal. That's what mum taught me. 

We cannot expect the same people to be with us all our lives. It's sad but true but sometimes moving forward is the only way.

Do not tell someone who is lying on their death bed that you've always cared about them, when a day ago all you were doing is ignoring their cries for help.

-Kamilah S. Harris

Cat Picture

MY LOVE FOR CATS ARE INFINITE! lol

Here's Muffiin

CYCLE OF ABUSE

I'm sorry it's crappy but I'm still getting use to using a tablet. 

I hope those of you out there who are going through this, please get out of relationships like this, for your own sake. You may claim to be in love but really, abuse like that will worsen everything. 

I hope it's useful. 

^_^

Art Theft/Not crediting & re-editing my work

As much as I love having my art displayed throughout wide social media's, I'd also like to point out that it does bother me when people do not ask permission when re-uploading my work on other social media's and re-editing my work to make it seem like it's theirs. If you are of legal age to be on social networks, it should give some of you some common decency to ask for my permission to re-upload my artwork but it is strictly unacceptable for you to steal someone else's including my artwork and re-edit it to make it seem like your own and then posting it on your social media to get likes. 

I've had at least three cases involving my art being used for the wrong purposes but those cases were considered okay and I didn't really mind since they didn't re-edit my work but I've recently come across a new one and it somewhat bothers me. No, It bothers me a lot. 

Here's a small(kinda) message to people who steal other artists artwork;

An artist took a substantial period of time to finish a piece of their work only to have it being stolen and re-edited and re-upload by a fake artist.

An artist took all the trouble to make a piece of artwork only to have it being used for other purposes without their permission.

Do you not consider an artists feelings when their art is being stolen? Imagine you worked hard on something only to find out someone had stolen it and used it to get credit from your work?

That would hurt wouldn't it. 

As a proud EXOstan, I love sharing my wallpapers and whatever piece of art I have with everyone but it saddens me when people do not take the time to credit the artists take so much time to make them.

So please, before you think of stealing and using other people's artwork, remember how they would feel and remember that if you are caught for art theft, It can be taken as a serious thing and is indeed against the law to do so.

I am not an admin on any facebook page unless I update this journal that says otherwise.
I  have a lot of social media accounts and all of them do not have a fake name, I use my real name that is either written in as Kamilah or in Korean. 
Any page on any social media using my artwork as theirs but not using my name is NOT me and unless they don't credit me, please tell me about it.
Stealing is a crime and you as a human do not want to be an online thief or a thief in any way.

“Cheating is NOT a mistake.

“Cheating is NOT a mistake.

If you’re truly in love with someone, you will not be able to kiss someone else without tasting your loved ones tears stain your lips. You will not be able to take your clothes off for someone else without feeling like a field ripped bare to its soil. Cheating is a choice, its a choice you made because you obviously didn’t give a single f**k about your relationship.”

—	Unknown (via doemilk) Exactlyyyyyyyy (via sendmepurplekisses)

You don’t have to hear “I Love You” to know that someone does

“

"Good Morning"

“How was your day?”

“Be careful”

“Text me when you get home so I know you’re safe”

“Sweet dreams”

“How are you?”

“I hope you’re feeling better”

“Have a good day today!”

“I miss you”

“Good night”

“Can you come over?”

“Can I come over?”

“Can I see you?”

“Can I call you?”

“You’re beautiful”

“Want something to drink?”

“Watch your step”

“Let’s watch a movie”

“What are you up to?”

“How is your day so far?”

“It will be okay”

“I’m here for you”

“Do you need anything?”

“Are you hungry?”

“I just wanted to hear your voice”

“You just made my day”

…

You don’t have to hear “I Love You” to know that someone does. Listen carefully. People speak from the heart more often than you think.

”

Remember That You are Loved

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Quote of The Week

“Everyone should smile. Life really isn’t that serious. We make it hard. The sun rises. The sun sets. We just tend to complicate the process.”

—	x (via freshurr)

Ask yourself

what does it mean?

It means do you need someone for the sake of not feeling alone and or sad or do you want me because you actually love me, not solely on comfort and fear but you actually want me.

Via Tumblr

Emotional Abuse

Credits to the rightful owner of the image above

by thorin-and-twerkteam.tumblr.com

Emotional abuse is when someone does something to hurt you, and when you express your feelings, that you’re upset, they turn it around to be something you did to hurt them and they force you to apologize for it, and your feelings, like always, are rendered invalid and silenced, forever damaging the ability to trust others with your feelings because they always are used against you.

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Love is a strange thing but it's also another reason of how the world works sometimes. When you love something or someone, it's your motivation.

Listening...

It's always good to just listen rather than to be the one always speaking. Be someone's listener because sometimes that is all they need. They need someone who will listen, not advise. They get comfort knowing someone out there is there for them and to listen to them so they won't feel so left out.

Basically, I've known the feeling of not being able to speak about my problems to some people who are close to me because they give out too much negative energy. It puts a lot of people off, especially when a person is hoping you will be able to listen but then get disappointed of your uninterested looks. Personally I would feel rather honoured if someone trusted me to listen to their problems, I would be honoured to be their listener. Whether that person has hurt you or not, it shouldn't matter because they came to you, for help.

Why turn down someone who is seeking help or seeking a little bit of comfort. It shouldn't  be hard to try and open up to listen to a few people. It's not that they are asking for advice. They need support. It's always important to be that kind of person or at least try to be.

Be aware that the person has guven you their trust, don't break it.

Photos from my Instagram

Muehehe I haven't died yet!